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Why am I always late? >> Well, let me ask you this question. >> Sure. >> In school, >> yes. >> Do you have trouble paying attention? >> Correct. >> Okay. Do you tend to lose things? >> Yes. >> Do you find it easy to get be disorganized? >> 100%. >> Okay. You probably qualify for this diagnosis called attention deficit disorder. And what it is is a lack of time maturity. Like in in scattered minds, in my book on ADHD, I describe how it's five minutes to 8:00. But and I have to be somewhere at 8. >> Yes. >> But at five, I still think I have an eternity in front of me. >> This has been my problem since I was a child. Yes. >> Cuz your time sense didn't develop early. >> Correct. >> So that's why you're always late. And I can also tell you why your time sense didn't develop early. >> Why is that? >> You see, kids don't have a time sense. To a baby, a present moment is eternity. >> Yes. You can't say to a one-year-old, you'll have dinner in five minutes, right? All they'reing is there's no dinner. Five minutes is eternity. Time sense has to develop. The brain has to develop. And for brain development, you need certain conditions. Here's what I can tell you without knowing anything about your specific history. When you're there's two things that are true about you. >> Okay? >> One is you're highly sensitive. >> Yes. The other is when you were small and infant even during the pregnancy your parents were stressed. >> How did you know this? >> Cuz that's why you have ADHD because you're tuning out and your lack of development of time sense has to do with the stress in your environment. And more genetically sensitive infants are the more they pick up on their parent stresses. And that actually interferes with the brain development of certain circuits. It's really that simple. It's not a disease that you inherit. It's actually a response to of sensitive infants to a stressed environment.